If your marriage is on the rocks it will take a huge toll on everyone, not just you and your spouse. Your children, friends, family, and even work can suffer if you have a strained relationship at home. Lot’s of men lose their wives for lots of reasons, but those reasons can generally be boiled down to one main cause: they didn’t treat their wife with love and respect, didn’t treat her like their best friend. While it’s a shame that men have to put themselves and their wives through so much pain before they can wise up, it is possible to get her to come back to you. Here are the best ways to get your wife back.
1. What went wrong? You can’t fix something until you’ve pinpointed the exact problem. This won’t be fun because you’ll have to face up to your own B.S. But if you really want your wife to come back to you, than you’ll take the time to figure it out.
2. Once you’ve pinpointed the problem, apologize, sincerely. Don’t pay lip service and not mean what you say. Once you’ve realized what you did that drove her away you need to let her know that you truly are sorry that you acted like such a jerk.
3. Of course, an apology won’t mean much if you continue with the same behavior. You have to make sure that you are willing to change your bad habits. Actions do speak louder than words so make sure that after you apologize to her you also let her see some positive changes.
The bottom line is this: the best ways to get your wife back is to face up to the problems, your problems, apologize for them and make significant strides forward. If your marriage is at this point you’ve probably apologized and then turned around and made the same mistakes many times throughout your relationship. You can’t blame your wife if she doesn’t take you seriously or believe you are truly sorry, that’s why you have to show her. Talk is cheap, show her by your actions that you really love her and want her back.
hi i know what i did wrong and i have seriously apologized. the thing was i wasnt there when she needed me because i was selfish and drunk most of the time. i have stopped drinking completely so that problem is solved. but now im not sure how to “be there” for her when the only thing she is willing to talk to me about is our 10 month old. and to top it all off, i just got layed off again so shes throwing the financial thing in my face. although that i can understand. so really my question is how do i show her that i can be there for her? please any help would be much appreciated. thanks in advance!